Make a Decision.....
You could observe the habits and thinking of those who struggle daily through life and see why.
That would teach you what not to do.
You could also analyze the habits and thinking of those who are succeeding on a big scale and you’d see why they get those results.
That would teach you exactly what to do if you wanted to have their kind of success.
…..and the sooner you realize both what not to do and what to do, the sooner you’ll be on your path to your greatest success.
How do I know this?
Over the past almost 40 years, since the age of 15, I’ve consciously focused on learning what leads people to failure, and what leads people to success. In my case, I’ve specifically learned about financial success or failure.
Over those 40 years, I’ve spent thousands of hours studying, reading, practicing and teaching in this area.
I got an MBA and a CPA to get as much formal training as I could.
I worked for the largest Fortune 500 companies to be trained with and work with some of the best minds in the business community.
I ran one of the fastest growing business and personal success training companies in North America.
I created financial independence for myself and my family by age 49.
I own a highly successful real estate investment company.
I also own a very successful financial consulting practice.
If you’ve ever heard me give a speech, or know me as a client, you know that I am living proof to all that I teach.
Everything you read here has proven to work for me, just as it has for thousands of others who decide to make the decision to learn it and live it.
I’ve taken the time to learn all of this so you don’t have to….. unless of course, you’d like to spend the next 40 years of your life learning it for yourself.
At the very top of the list of reasons people fail is that they procrastinate. They refuse to make a decision and take action.
They need to think about it.
Have you ever heard that little voice inside your head tell you that?
“I gotta think about it?”
Of course you have.
That little voice is actually your own worst enemy, and it’s called your conditioned mind.
It has no desire for you to change anything in your life. Even if it might lead you to something better, your conditioned mind doesn’t care.
Change requires work. It creates risk. It forces you to get out of your comfort zone, (doing what comes naturally), and your conditioned mind isn’t up for any of it.
The one and only thing your conditioned mind cares about is your survival. It really doesn’t care about your success.
If you’re lazy, your conditioned mind is fine with that. You’re surviving.
If you’re bored, it’s fine with that too. You’re surviving.
If you're struggling, fine too. You’re surviving.
But think about growing, changing, learning or improving, and your conditioned mind will spring into action.
It’ll do everything in its power to keep things the same, and at the same time let you think that you’re going to change.
What that means is that you have to STOP listening to that little voice and begin to take control of your mind and your thoughts.
On the other hand, at the top of the list of things that all successful people do is that they make decisions quickly and decisively, and they change them slowly if at all.
Every day, you make thousands of decisions. It’s the quality of your decisions that determines the quality of your life.
When you make a decision that moves you towards your desires in life, and follow through with action, you automatically call to your aid forces unseen that will actually help you to achieve your dreams.
For you to reach your dreams and goals in life, you’ll have to grow yourself into a person capable of having them. That means, on a daily basis, you need to make decisions and take actions that continually move you towards what you want.
Since a successful person knows what they want in life, they automatically make decisions throughout the day that propel them towards their goals. They don’t spend a lot of time thinking about things, they make the decision and move forward.
When they don’t know what to do, they set a deadline for making a decision, and then go to work getting all the information they need to make an informed one.
They call their contacts that have knowledge and insights.
They explore and research on line or in books.
They do whatever they have to do in order to make a decision, and then they make it.
Will they always be right? Well, is anyone always right?
If you’re afraid to make a decision because you might make the wrong one, you’ll never make one.
If you aren’t reaching your full potential, in any area of your life, I can guarantee you that you are a poor decision maker.
The very best decision you can make right now is to decide that you aren’t going to be controlled by your conditioned mind any more.
Your situation today is a DIRECT RESULT of listening to your conditioned mind up to this point. This is the best it can do for you!
If you want more out of life, you have to fight the daily battle with your conditioned mind until you finally, (through practice), gain the upper hand and train it to be your ally rather than your arch enemy.
Stop listening to it. Today.
Begin to practice making decisions quickly, and acting on them. I promise you that as soon as you stop procrastinating and begin to make decisions quickly, you will begin to move your life onto a whole new level.
Make a decision today to join the Elite top 5% who are achieving their dreams and goals.
Everything you need to know to join this group is right here at this site. Come back often.
Namaste.
Jeff
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